Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism

Transference Focused Psychotherapy (TFP) is a highly specialized and effective treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), and other difficult-to-treat conditions. TFP is an empirically validated treatment (EVT), and it has been thoroughly researched through numerous randomized controlled trials (RCTs) which have shown it to be equal or superior in effectiveness to Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Mentalization Behavioral Therapy (MBT), and various forms of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).1 TFP has been shown to produce significant improvement in personality functioning,2 and long-lasting positive changes that go beyond mere symptom change.3

The title of this page, “Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism,” pays homage to Otto Kernberg, MD, the author of the seminal book by the same name.4 Kernberg is one of the true modern-day giants in the mental health field, and the developer of Transference Focused Psychotherapy. He has published dozens of books and articles on this and related topics in his lengthy career, and since 1976 he has been the Director of the Personality Disorders Institute at the New York-Presbyterian Hospital-Cornell Medical Center.

For the past several years, I have engaged in intensive training in Transference Focused Psychotherapy, studying the scientific literature, attending international conferences, and receiving personal case supervision from two of Kernberg’s colleagues and co-authors at the Personality Disorders Institute, Frank Yeomans, MD, PhD, and Kenneth Levy, PhD. In doing so, I have improved my skills as an already-experienced psychotherapist to new and higher levels of sophistication and effectiveness. It has been a career-changing opportunity that has very positively affected my clinical work.

Transference Focused Psychotherapy seeks to help borderline and narcissistic patients better understand the nature of their own internal personality conflicts, their conflicts with others, and especially their own contributions to their difficulties in life. There is a focus on cognitive, behavioral, and emotional patterns displayed in important relationships, in work or school, and importantly, in the psychotherapy relationship itself between patient and doctor. TFP is most effective if sessions can occur twice per week (though sometimes less frequently) and requires sufficient time to achieve optimal results, usually a year or more.

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Borderline Personality Disorder is a mental health condition that has gotten increasing attention in the past 30 years. Although the concept had been recognized for many decades, the modern use of the term begin with Adolf Stern in 1938 to describe individuals suffering from a disturbance that was “on the borderline” between neurosis and psychosis.5 The condition was studied and written about intensively beginning in the 1970s, and is now thought to be a combination of disorders of emotional functioning, impulsive behavior, and unstable interpersonal relationships. It has also been referred to as “emotionally unstable personality disorder.”6


Researchers have found that the prevalence in the overall population is estimated at 1.4 percent for Borderline Personality Disorder. They have also found that, in general, people with personality disorders are very likely to have co-occurring major mental disorders, including anxiety disorders (e.g., panic disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder), mood disorders (e.g., depression, bipolar disorder), impulse control disorders (e.g., attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), and substance abuse or dependence.7


To qualify for the diagnosis, individuals need to exhibit two or more of the following:

Identity: Markedly unstable self-image, excessive self-criticism; chronic feelings of emptiness.
Self-direction: Instability in goals, aspirations, values, or career plans.
Empathy: Poor ability to recognize the feelings and needs of others, associated with interpersonal hypersensitivity (i.e., a tendency to feel criticized or insulted); perceptions of others biased toward the negative.
Intimacy: Intense, unstable, and conflicted close relationships, marked by mistrust, neediness, and anxious fears of abandonment; close relationships often viewed in extremes of black and white, alternating between over-involvement and withdrawal.

And four or more of the following:

Emotional instability: Frequent mood changes; emotions that are easily aroused, intense, and out of proportion to circumstances.
Anxiousness: Intense feelings of nervousness or panic, often in reaction to interpersonal stresses; feeling fearful, apprehensive, or threatened by uncertainty; fears of falling apart or losing control.
Separation insecurity: Fears of rejection by or separation from significant others, associated with fears of excessive dependency and complete loss of autonomy.

Depressivity: Frequent feelings of being down, miserable, and hopeless; pervasive shame; feelings of inferior self-worth; thoughts of suicide and suicidal behavior.

Impulsivity: Acting on a momentary basis without a plan or consideration of outcomes; a sense of urgency and self-harming behavior under emotional distress.

Risk taking: Engagement in risky, and potentially self-damaging activities, without regard to consequences; denial of the reality of personal danger.

Hostility: Persistent or frequent angry feelings, especially in response to minor slights and insults.8

Contact Dr. Tom Bonner to discuss the evaluation and treatment of Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders.

REFERENCES (for further reading)

1Clarkin JF, Levy KN, Lenzenweger M-F, Kernberg OF: Evaluating three treatments for borderline personality disorder: a multiwave study. Am J Psychiatry 164(6): 922-928, 2007.

2Doering S, Hörz S, Rentrop M et al.: Transference-focused psychotherapy v. treatment by community psychotherapists for borderline personality disorder: randomized controlled trial. Br J Psychiatry 196(5): 389-395, 2010.

3Levy, KN, Meehan KB, Kelly KM, et al.: Change in attachment patters and reflective function in a randomized control trial of transference-focused psychotherapy for borderline personality disorder. J Consulting & Clinical Psychology 74(6): 1027-1040, 2006.

4Kernberg OF: Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism. New York, Aronson, 1975.

5Stern, Adolf (1938). Psychoanalytic investigation of and therapy in the borderline group of neuroses. Psychoanalytic Quarterly 7: 467–489.

6Emotionally unstable personality disorder – International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems 10th Revision (ICD-10) – World Health Organization

7Lenzenweger MF, Lane MC, Loranger AW, Kessler RC. DSM-IV personality disorders in the National Comorbidity Survey Replication. Biol Psychiatry. 2007 Sep 15;62(6): 553-64.

8John M. Oldham, M.D. Personality Disorders & DSM-5 Presentation for NEA-BPD Call-In Program Sunday, December 16, 2012, retrieved from http://www. _16_v2.pdf